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As a Black activist who also happens to be a lesbian,
my fight has been resolute not to mainstream homosexuality as some
critics wrongly and slanderously maintain, but to promote respect
for and tolerance toward those with diverse sexual preferences.
Look around you. There’s no place that we go where we don’t
see lesbian, gay, bisexual, or transgender people and this is especially
true within the African American community. For many of us, we don’t
even need to look outside our families to see this because most
of us have gay relatives.
The recent decision by the state of New Jersey to direct their Legislature
to adopt legislation making gay marriage legal was that state’s
recognition that lesbian and gay couples are deserving of the same
rights as heterosexual couples. And why shouldn’t they be?
Gay couples pay taxes too.
Many gays have been in the forefront of the fight for equal rights,
racial justice and against homophobia. We recognize that discrimination
is discrimination no matter whether it’s based on race or
sexual preference. That makes it a just and valid civil rights issue
and fight.
It’s crucial to remember that whether one likes another’s
“lifestyle” doesn’t mean that they don’t
deserve the same rights that you have. As a lesbian, I may not like
your lifestyle, but does that give me the right to deny you of anything?
While I will admit that the face of the gay rights movement is largely
one of privilege, meaning white, there are many Black same-gender
loving people like myself who want to see that gays are given full
equality under the law, and not just simply tolerated.
What you do in your bedroom is of no concern to me, and that’s
the attitude that more Blacks need to take. That’s a crucial
message that many Blacks still haven’t gotten or accepted.
Black pastors who use gays as scapegoats
and as an easy way to raise more money in the collection plate really
need to stop. Because you and I both know that if gays got up and
walked out of the church, there’d be no deacons, music, ushers,
and in some cases, no pastor.
Blacks who want to act like they are holier than thou and go around
quoting certain scriptures to justify their mistreatment of gays
need to realize that the book they are using to do the condoning
is the same book that the “massuh” used to condone the
mistreatment of his Black slaves.
And for my religious folks, what happened to the idea that God was
the ultimate judge of all mankind? Well, if that’s true, why
are so many people trying to do God’s job. If gays are indeed
going to hell, stopping them from getting married isn’t going
to “save them” anymore than allowing them to would.
I’m not going anywhere, and neither are the other millions
of Black same-gender loving people. We are here and we are a part
of this community.
Many people, especially the conservative right want to see Blacks
divided on this issue. Blacks do not need a repeat of the 2004 Presidential
election where prominent Black pastors used this issue to sway votes
to President Bush.
At the end of the day, so what if two
people of the same-sex want to get married. What does that really
have to do with you? Absolutely nothing. You may not like it just
as whites didn’t like the idea of interracial marriages. Did
that stop Black  people
from jumping the broom with them? And while we’re busy trying
to deny gays the right to marry, we’re all cleverly distracted
from the real issues that affect us all. Gay or straight, if you’re
Black, the war in Iraq, unemployment, affordable housing, health
care, a decent living wage, social security reform, and HIV/AIDS
are all issues on which we need to focus going into 2007, while
making sure that our newly Democratic led Congress does right by
Blacks and other ethnic minorities in this country.
And in another display of how other nations are more
progressive than Americans, the South African Parliament on Tuesday
approved new legislation recognizing gay marriages. Did you hear
me? South Africa. Black America, let’s wake up.
Jasmyne Cannick is a social commentator
and activist who is known for addressing the issues others can't
or simply won't. Chosen as one of ESSENCE Magazine's 25 Women Shaping
the World in 2005, at 29, Jasmyne is a member of the National Association
of Black Journalists and writes a popular daily blog at jasmynecannick.com.
and myspace.com/jasmynecannick.
She resides in Los Angeles. |
