More
mass
                                            shooting in America followed by more empty
                                    words by politicians.
                               What can we
                                    do? Even if we cut the number of guns in
                                    America in half, there’d still be 200
                                    million guns on our soil. OK, let’s ban
                                    assault rifles. But there’s already more
                                    than 20 million AR-15-type rifles in
                                    circulation. Well then, how about more “good
                                    guys with guns” to catch the bad guys? If
                                    more guns and more police worked, why do
                                    mass shootings in America keep increasing?
                               We need to
                                    change our culture of violence while
                                    strengthening communal and family bonds. And
                                    we need to talk a lot less about “gun
                                    rights,” as if guns are people instead of
                                    tools that kill people, and much more about
                                    personal responsibility.
                               I’ve owned
                                    guns and I hope I acted responsibly as a
                                    gun-owner. Most gun-owners do. We know the
                                    rules of gun ownership. Always assume a gun
                                    is loaded. Never point a gun near anyone
                                    (unless you’re truly in a life-or-death
                                    situation). Don’t have a gun unless you’re
                                    trained on how to shoot it safely.
                               But our
                                    culture sends very different messages about
                                    guns. I can’t count the commercials I’ve
                                    seen for cop and military shows where the
                                    gun on the TV screen is pointed at me, the
                                    viewer (and you too, if you’re watching). I
                                    can’t count the shows that feature SWAT
                                    teams and lengthy shootouts. Far too often,
                                    guns and the violence they enable are
                                    depicted as cool, as sexy, as manly, as
                                    good.
                               With
                                    six-shooters we had the Wild West mystique
                                    of John Wayne, Gary Cooper, and the like;
                                    then in the 1970s came Clint Eastwood’s
                                    Dirty Harry and similar vigilante-cops. Only
                                    in the last three decades or so has
                                    military-style action exploded on our TV and
                                    Cable screens, featuring machine guns, .50
                                    caliber sniper rifles, and a seemingly
                                    endless assortment of assault rifles in
                                    highly-stylized gun fights, usually depicted
                                    on Main Street USA.
                               Add all
                                    that on-screen violence to military-style
                                    shooter video games and you get a culture
                                    increasingly immersed in both virtual and
                                    actual gunplay. Meanwhile, our wider
                                    political culture is increasingly fractured,
                                    people are increasingly desperate as prices
                                    rise and jobs go away, and politicians,
                                    instead of doing something to help us,
                                    instead seek to divide us further by blaming
                                    the other party.
                               Politicians
                                    talk about red and blue America, but when we
                                    talk gun violence, we’re all red because we
                                    all bleed red. Guns don’t care about our
                                    petty partisan squabbles and our inability
                                    to change ourselves and our culture. Someone
                                    squeezes the trigger, some angry, some
                                    hateful, some violent, guy (it’s almost
                                    always a guy), and lots of people end up
                                    dead.
                               That nearly
                                    all mass shootings are done by men, often
                                    young men, should tell us something. That so
                                    many often favor “military-style” assault
                                    rifles should tell us something else.
                                    America is like one vast gated community,
                                    armed to the teeth against enemies from
                                    without even as the most dangerous enemies
                                    are those living within the gates, those who
                                    are locked, loaded, and ready to kill.
                               Young men
                                    need role models. They need a culture that
                                    teaches them killing isn’t cool. And the
                                    rest of us deserve communities where words
                                    and phrases like “lockdown,” “shelter in
                                    place,” and “active shooter” make no sense
                                    because there’s no need for them.